Alan Fong
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Alan Fong
3 min read
Alan Fong
3 min read
Too Busy!
- Alan Fong
- 1 day ago
- 3 min read
Today's Verse:
They made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept. ~Song of Solomon 1:6b
We live very busy lives! Living in the San Francisco Bay Area places many demands upon working adults. Working people need to make time for commuting, attending classes, taking their children to school and after-school events, household chores, cooking, cleaning, and outside volunteer activities. In addition, those of us who are actively serving the Lord in our church have great responsibilities that are added to everything else. We are busy! In fact, we can be so busy that we can become neglectful of things that should be important to us.
We see the reason.
“They made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.” The Shunammite woman had been given the responsibility of caring for her family's vineyards. Caring for a vineyard was arduous work that required daily attention. There was planting, irrigation, pruning, setting traps to catch little foxes, daily inspection, and eventually harvesting. She was so busy taking care of other vineyards that her own vineyard was neglected. Her vineyard became overgrown with weeds and nettles. The walls of her vineyard were broken down. Foxes nibbled away at the grapes. She did not have a good harvest. When we are overcommitted, try to please too many people, and do not set the right priorities, what should be important to us is neglected.
We see the result.
Negligence is very obvious. We become sporadic in or absent from our Bible reading and prayer. We do not spend quality time with our spouse and our marriage crumbles. Our children do not receive the time they need for mentoring and love. We become irritable, impatient, and argumentative. We are trying to serve two masters but are unable to please anyone. A neglected vineyard is an eyesore. A neglected vineyard bears little to no fruit. A neglected vineyard is a devalued vineyard. When we are negligent, we are saying that we are too busy, we do not care, and what should be important is not a priority.
We see a rebuke.
“And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things” (Luke 10:41). Martha was so busy serving and trying to impress Jesus with her skills that she neglected the most important responsibility: worshiping Jesus! Martha complained that Mary should have been helping her. Jesus told her that she was careful and troubled about many things. We make a bigger deal out of what we do than we do about what we should be doing. We make a big deal about how we look than about how we should be living. He told Martha that Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her. Mary knew the priority was worshiping Jesus with an undistracted heart. Do you hear the rebuke of the Lord telling you that there are things you have been neglecting that need immediate attention?
We see a remedy.
We need to reassess our priorities and give ourselves to doing the right things. We must decide not to try to please everyone and not to become overcommitted. Our schedule must accommodate quality time with our family and with God. We must build margins in our schedule for rest, recreation, time with God, and building our family. We must be careful not to go to extremes, from being overcommitted to having little commitment. We must be dependable in our responsibilities and devoted to the people most important to us. Don’t let negligence destroy your vineyard!
Have a balanced God Morning!
Reading Schedule: Proverbs 22-23